This is a rather late writing of what happened on Monday, but it´s also telling of what this week´s been like.
We were going to start cilantro and radish seeds this week. But when we arrived in Xitapontla, there was no water. The organization that was going to bring water out to the boarding school hadn´t delivered it the week before. There´s an organization in Mexico that works specifically with indigenous people. This organization provides various services of which one is apparently delivering water. Since they hadn´t, the plants that the boarding school has were drying up. There wasn´t enough water for the kids to bathe, to water plants, to do everything you need to live. Besides drink. They did have drinking water. As a result, we couldn´t plant anything. And I´m rather worried for all the flowers that we started a few weeks ago. The organization promised that they would deliver water today, so I´m hoping very much that it arrived.
Monday morning we went to Chiaucingo to visit every house, partly so Meredith could see where the women lived and their garden spaces, but also to check on the progress of the double digging in their gardens as well as to be available to answer specific questions about their seeds, worms or garden beds. We had a very interesting conversation about men and women relations with Jeremina (Hair-eh-mean-a) over papaya juice. She´s one of three sisters in our gardening group and is quite funny. Her husband taught his kids (he has kids from a previous marriage) to treat every woman like they´d treat their mother-with respect. It was a refreshing conversation overall.
Tuesday, Meredith and I went to Teticic to do home visits there. We managed to visit everyone in one day. Their worms were looking amazing and are going to be ready to sift the first harvesting of worm castings in the next couple weeks. We´re going to use the worm castings to transplant the plants we started in trays and also use them when we direct plant the other seeds. Everyone is very excited about their worms and takes good care of them. They all think they´ve got tons of worms….worms are rather a nice pet to have. They reproduce very quickly, so it´s hard to kill them all off and they literally eat poop and turn it into black gold for plants.
Tuesday afternoon my basketball team played a practice game against the high school girls. It was the first time I´d been in the high school. For the number of students, it didn´t seem like very many classrooms. Students wear white polo shirts if they´re first years, gray if they´re second years and red if they´re third years. There are six years of primary school here, three of middle school and three of high school. It amazes me how interesting I apparently am to the students. I feel like I´ve been here long enough now that I should have ceased to be quite so interesting. But I´m definitely a status symbol. All the high school boys that my basketball team practices with in the morning said hi to me…they also practice with the rest of my team, but they did not say hi to all of the girls on my team. Granted, more than half my team is married with kids, but still.
The girls on my team (including the unmarried ones) seem to be okay with all the attention that I get, which is a relief. It´s something that I worry about in my relationships with females here, but so far most seem not to be too offended that I get more than my share of attention. Maybe they figure that I´m not actually a danger to their relationships because I can´t speak properly. But I´ve also tried to be very open with the fact that I´m not looking for a boyfriend. And I smile at everyone.
There is a basketball tournament and fundraiser this weekend. We´re trying to raise money for the league in general. There´s going to be a dance Sunday night and my team wants me to sell my dances and charge for any photos taken and any kisses given. People do cheek kisses here to greet and say goodbye. My team was specific that I could charge for cheek kisses and before they started discussing prices for any other sorts of kissing, I very firmly informed them I would not be selling kisses. They feel that I´ve cheated them of prime money making opportunities.
This week ten middle schools from around the state have gathered here for competitions in sports (volleyball, track and field, soccer and basketball) as well as poetry and dancing. Tonight is dancing and I´m rather excited about it. Everyone seems to be able to dance here, so it should be good.
I´m off now to repaint the lines on the basketball court where the tournament will be taking place.